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Rupert Everett is still talking: “There is just very little opportunity for a fag”
Rupert Everett dared to be an out and proud actor long before TR Knight, Neil Patrick Harris and others were on the front lines. He was so good in Another Country in the mid-80s, should have been Oscar nominated for My Best Friends Wedding in the 90s and starred opposite Madonna (The Next Best Thing) and Cate Blanchett and Julianne Moore (The Ideal Husband).
But somewhere along the way, Everett began sounding very bitchy in interviews. Currently starring on Broadway in Blithe Spirit with Angela Lansbury, he talked with David Sessums of The Daily Beast about his life and career. Here are some bitter morsels:
Q. Do you regret having come out as a gay man? Does it anger you that a lot of actors who are gay have chosen not to come out and have better careers to show for it?
Everett: No. What I find I regret—what pisses me off—is this complicity among everyone else against a queen even though they don’t even know it. Even people who consider themselves thoughtful. So what people say about me is, “Isn’t it amazing that you didn’t really try very hard in your career? Your career is so up and down.” But the reason my career is so up and down is that I get very little opportunity. There is just very little opportunity for a fag. That’s the reality. There isn’t. But I have no regrets for being out. None. It’s not like I’m missing out on that much. Being an actor in Hollywood is not that great a job anymore. It’s become the sluttiest job on the planet. It’s not remotely serious. It’s not like we’re talking about Hollywood in the 1970s that I’m missing out on. If we were talking about ‘70s Hollywood, then I’d be killing myself because the product back then was so astonishing even though it was still thought of as commercial cinema. I’m not that upset not to be in Ocean’s 15 or whatever.
Q. ne of the things you’ve had to say over and over again is that you’re gay. And yet when those teenagers from Kentucky were talking about you, that’s one of the things they were so appreciative about. You are a kind of role model for them.
Everett: God, I hope not. I don’t think kids should have role models. They’re disastrous. My own role models were film stars who were tortured and downed barbiturates on film sets and I thought that was just the coolest thing. Montgomery Clift and people like that. I just think having role models is terrible.
Q. Being gay doesn’t preclude one from having children. You could adopt or go the surrogacy route that so many gay men are using these days.
Everett: I think this surrogacy thing is crap. It is utterly hideous. I think it’s egocentric and vain. And these endless IVF treatments people go through. I mean, if you are meant to have babies then great. But this whole idea of two gay guys filling a cocktail shaker with their sperm and impregnating some grim lesbian and then it gets cut out is just really weird. If I did have the impulse to be a parent, I would adopt—or foster. But this whole thing of forcing the idea of parenthood on us gay men is so bogus. Marriage? Babies? Please. I want to be illegal. I want to live outside the mainstream.
Q. You’re so old-fashioned.
Everett: Or am I slightly ahead of the curve? It has to change. These awful middle-class queens—which is what the gay movement has become—are so tiresome. It’s all Abercrombie & Fitch and strollers. Everybody has the right to do what they want to do, but still…
Here is how I prefer to think of Rupert: his sensational performance as Julia Roberts’ best gay friend in My Best Friends Wedding:
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Brent says:
Bravo Rupert! Thank God you’re not one of the ‘lock step’ gay male (or gay female) entertainers. Thank you for your honest view points. Maybe, if more gays thought this way, we’d be accepted in the main stream of American society. There are too many drama queens out there. Most people are offended by ‘in your face’ fags, and yes, if you are one of those, tuff shit. You offend and embarrass my sexuality. If someone askes me if I’m gay, I say, ‘Why, yes I am, what’s your interest?’. Most people don’t know what to say after that comeback. It’s truely none of their business, unless they’re interested in ME. And, Greg…you’re a photo whore. You give the impression that these celeb’s you are photographed with, are either gay, or support gay ideals. What crap!
Roya says:
Rupert, you are the most genuine celebrity I have ever come across. You are not afraid of saying what you think and what you believe. That is so refreshing. I have watched most of your work and I always loved your character.
I also totally agree with you about the IVF. I don’t have children and I can’t understand why so many idiots out there need to define themselves through parenthood. Usually, those are the same people who loose meaning when their kids are grown and gone. Like they never had a purpose of their own that was independent of their child. How sad is that.
I wish I could sit down and shoot the breeze with you. I bet it would be so much fun to talk about life with someone as straight forward as you.