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Wilson Cruz talks about the controversy over his and other gay portrayals in “He’s Just Not That Into You”

He's Just Not That Into YouOut actor Wilson Cruz, veteran of such indie films as Coffee Date and Party Monster, finally lands a role in a major studio hit  – He’s Just Not That Into You – and some people have a problem with it.

Wilson plays one of Drew Barrymore’s co-workers in the ad department of a local gay newspaper, one of three gay men reacting and offering commentary on her character’s pathetic love life.

The problem for some is the feeling that the gay men in the movie – and the co-worker characters in particular – are just a tad too effeminate. They’re not, as Lance Bass once unfortunately described as “straight acting gays.”

“Some people had something to say about the fact that I may have been too effeminate or other people in the film may have been too effeminate but I celebrate that fact that we can do that in 2009,” the actor said when we spoke before the screening of Pedro Saturday night at Outfest Fusion 2009 in Hollywood.  “I want to see more effeminate men on television and in film. I think there is a lack of that. The more we see effeminate men on screen, the more we can help those young people who are exactly that feel okay about it. And that’s really the whole point of my career.”


It was as effeminate high school student Rickie Vasquez on ABC’s My So-Called Life that made Wilson a star back in 1994. He made the brave decision to be an out gay actor from the beginning of his career and went on have regular roles in such series as Party of Five and Noah’s Arc and most recently in Rick & Steve: The Happiest Gay Couple in the World and Raising the Bar. He’s also had a busy stage career including a run on Broadway in Rent.

Through it all, he’s never apologized for who he is and makes no apologies for He’s Just Not That Into You which is closing in on the $85 million mark domestically at the box office.

“I was happy with what I did, I was very proud of my portrayal of a gay man,” he says. “I know that there was some controversy about some of the portrayals of gay men in the film. I felt like as a whole, the film did a good job of showing a spectrum of gay men. some of the controversy came off as self-hatred to me in the sense that we do have a lot of effeminate men in our community. I celebrate that. And I celebrate the fact that they should be willing and able to be exactly who they are.”

He has strong words for those who have been critical: “When we as a community start to tear each other down because of the fact that some of the members of our community feel so free and so alive, that they feel they can be whoever they are in public, then we have lost the whole purpose of our movement. The purpose of our movement really is that we as gay men and women be exactly who we are – at all times. And we’re not trying to mask and be something other than that.”

“I may be done in 5-6 years and I think I want that to be my legacy – that I made it okay for them,” he adds.

What a minute. Done in 5-6 years? Wilson is only 35!

He explains: “I might want to do some political work and that may be where I want to end up.”



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4 Remarks

  1. Bravo to Wilson for being who he is! 5 – 10 years? I expect him to act in films quite a bit longer. As far as I’m concerned he doesn’t make enough films. By the way, doesn’t he have the most beautiful smile that you’ve ever seen

  2. Good for Wilson! Right on. The only way to preserve the lives of LGBT youth is to end (perceived and actual) isolation. The only way to do that is through visibility and self-disclosure. He is on the right track and hopefully will have folks following in his footsteps. P.S. I loved your effeminate self in “My So-Called Life,” W.C.!!

  3. Is Wilson crazy? There should be more effeminate characters on TV and in film?!?!!? I feel like that’s the ONLY portrayal of gay men. I too, am one of the gay men disappointed in the portrayal of gays in the film “He’s Just Not That Into You.” All we ever see is gay men portrayed as effeminate. Growing up in the Midwest, I didn’t have much exposure to gays, and I was terrified of coming out. The only thing I knew about being gay was what I saw on TV—-effeminate men—which is something I just didn’t relate too. Although Lance Bass received some flack for his “straight acting gay” comment, I know what he was talking about. Had I seen more gay men portrayed as “straight acting” on television, I know I would have felt more comfortable with myself, and probably would have come out sooner. What we need on TV is more gay men being portrayed with MASCULINE traits, not effeminate.

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