People are buzzing about NHL player Brooks Laich and what he means about exploring his sexuality
I don’t want to get too tabloidy about this but, well, what the heck is going on with NHL player Brooks Laich?
He’s married to the not straight Julianne Hough and the couple has reportedly hit a rough patch in their two year marriage.
People magazine reports: Opening up on the podcast How Men Think with Gavin DeGraw on Monday, Laich confessed that he doesn’t feel “100 percent fully expressed” in his true sexuality and that he is now taking a “pleasure first” approach to his life.
“One of my goals this year is to really explore like, learning about sexuality,” said Laich. “People think that sexuality is just the act of sex, of just having sex and there’s so much more to it. Here’s a question. This is an honest question for everybody in this room, and every single person listening: Are you fully 100 percent fully expressed in your true sexuality? With your partner? With everything? You could not imagine having a better sex life? Are you truly there?” he asked. “I’m not either. So that’s what one of my goals this year is to really dive into. So then we’re all essentially, that’s a state of suffering.”
He continued: “We’re not 10s of 10s. It doesn’t mean you’re the best performer. It just means, ‘Are you fully expressed?’ Do you even know who you are sexually? And I truly, to my core, do not. But I’m super excited about that journey to really learn about sexuality and also get better at the performance of it, but also just the understanding of who I am, who my wife is, that sort of dance.”
Hmmmm. I hope he provides us with some updates as time goes by!
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