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“American Idol” star David Archuleta has come out as LGBTQIA: “God made me how I am for a purpose”

Former American Idol runner-up David Archuleta posted a lengthy Instagram post Saturday coming out as LGBTQIA. He’s still figuring out which letter applies to him and God bless him for it.

Archuleta said he came out as gay to his family in 2014, but then had similar feelings for both genders, suggesting “a spectrum of bisexual.” He added he doesn’t “have too much sexual desires and urges as most people,” noting “asexual” is a term referred to people who “don’t experience sexual urges.”

Below is his complete post:

I like to keep to myself but also thought this was important to share because I know so many other people from religious upbringings feel the same way. I’ve been open to myself and my close family for some years now that I am not sure about my own sexuality. I came out in 2014 as gay to my family. But then I had similar feelings for both genders so maybe a spectrum of bisexual. Then I also have learned I don’t have too much sexual desires and urges as most people ????which works I guess because I have a commitment to save myself until marriage ????. Which people call asexual when they don’t experience sexual urges. There are people experiencing the same feelings of being LGBTQIA+, (i know that’s a lot of letters that a lot of people don’t understand, but there are a lot of unique experiences people feel and live that make them feel isolated and alone that are represented) who are wrestling to follow their beliefs that are so important to them, just as I have. Idk what to make of it and I don’t have all the answers. I just invite you to please consider making room to be more understanding and compassionate to those who are LGBTQIA+, and those who are a part of that community and trying to find that balance with their faith which also is a huge part of their identity like myself. I think we can do better as people of faith and Christians, including Latter-day Saints, to listen more to the wrestle between being LGBTQIA+ and a person of faith. There are more than you may realize going through that wrestle after all the misunderstandings that come with it. I don’t think it should come down to feeling you have to accept one or the other. For me to find peace the reality has been to accept both are real things I experience and make who I am. I’ve yet to figure out what that means but I appreciate you listening to this personal matter. Again I don’t feel comfortable sharing it, but felt I needed to to bring more awareness to people in my same situation and let you know you’re not alone. You can be part of the LGBTQIA+ community and still believe in God and His gospel plan…
For people who don’t really understand how feelings outside of just being heterosexual can be possible and ok I just plead that you be more understanding to people who experience and struggle with things that you may not experience and understand yourself. I’ve tried for almost 20 years to try and change myself until I realized God made me how I am for a purpose. And instead of hating what I have considered wrong I need to see why God loved me for who I am and that it’s not just sexuality. So many other traits of who I am come from how I’ve been created. If other people choose to live differently than what you’ve been raised to believe is right, please have compassion because it’s most likely been an exhausting journey for them to be ok with the feelings they have and never have been able to change. Idk if they weren’t supposed to try and change the way they were created to be. Even if you’re left with so many more questions with faith and sexuality like me I believe being open to both questions and to faith is how we receive answers. God blesses those who ask. So let’s keep asking and seeking, and having compassion and patience. Thank you for listening.

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  1. June 13th, 2021 at 2:46 pm
    Roy Turner says:

    That is an awesome testimony young man and I applaud you for having the face and the courage to say the things you said. People need to realize that we are all gods creatures so if there’s a flaw in somebody’s hi it’s a flow God put their. Not that there is a flaw. I just commend and applaud you.

  2. I’m happy to hear he was able to come out and be open with his family. I hadn’t really kept up with him over the years, I remember that during Idol and for a few years later his Dad seemed to be extremely involved in everything he did to an almost “show mother” type way.

    He’s still cute!

  3. Great to hear this news publicly! Its great that he shows his honesty & support of LGBT+ people! I was intimate with girls during college, but came out as gay after graduating & moving to a heavily LGBT Ft. Lauderdale area! I was free of the restrictions by most religions & it felt great (still holding my personal faith). Living where so many people are like fellow LGBT peers is wonderfully liberating!

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